Finding the right treatment protocol for a newly diagnosed HIV diagnosis almost always begins with finding the right health care provider and care team. While there have been many advances in HIV prevention and treatment over the past few decades, it’s important to find a medical team that understands the nuances of diagnosis and what’s available. In this episode, The Talkadvocates shared insights on their journey to finding the right doctor to guide them on their treatment journey.
“I don’t think finding the right fit in health care is something we don’t talk about enough,” says Toni Morrison, a media strategist and HIV advocate. “Your provider should feel like family. If they don’t, it’s time to find a new provider. And that’s okay.”
In some cases, finding the right provider may require you to try a few before finding the one that’s best for you. Jose Barrientos, a social worker and HIV advocate, says he tried many doctors before finding a way to advocate for himself in a medical setting.
“When I entered the office environment, I was often still intimidated and not comfortable or well prepared,” Barrientos says. “Ask as many questions as you can. No stupid questions. This is your life, this is your care, and these people are here to serve you.”
For artist and HIV activist Ivy Kwan Arce, finding a medical facility that serves people with HIV is critical to finding a doctor who can help.
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“Last year, I went to a new place.” [obstetrician] “She had never heard of U=U and was very nervous. My advice is that she needs to find a clinic where she doesn’t have to worry about anything because she is basically in a safe place and has the latest treatments.”
Deshawn Armbrister, a dancer and HIV advocate, says relationships with health care providers are like any other relationship, and you need to make sure you’re compatible. If you feel some level of judgment from your new doctor or health care provider, rather than feeling supported and guided in your choices, it’s time to move on.
“HIV is not the end goal; it is one of many necessary parts of maintaining sexual health,” Armbrister says. “Any kind of negative emotion, any kind of judgmental emotion, that’s what you want to avoid from your health care provider. The important thing is to make sure you get the best care.”
Source: Advocate.com – www.advocate.com
