Here’s the truth…Losing friends after having children is a tough but common experience.
Sometimes we become estranged.
Sometimes we go in different directions.
Here are some tips to help you cope.
First, remember that it’s normal for friendships to change when you have kids. Priorities and schedules change, and it’s natural for friendships to drift apart. Now I’m just focused on changing diapers, making play dates, and staying sane, haha!
Instead of dwelling on your loss, try to focus on the friendships that have become stronger since becoming a parent. Although my situation is different, I’m so grateful for my small group of friends and online community, plus new friends who are going through similar things. We turn to each other for advice and support. If you’re feeling lonely or isolated, consider finding a group of new parents in your community.
Another favourite thing I love is my moms group on Facebook, which can get wild at times but overall is a supportive network of people going through the same things as me.
Lastly, don’t feel guilty about letting go of friendships that no longer serve you. It’s okay to prioritize your family and your happiness. Don’t feel like you have to give it all up. I have friends who don’t have kids and who keep up with Ava more than others, lol.
Losing friends after having children can be tough, but it doesn’t have to be the end of the world.
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