Love or marriage: Is it destined or every soul is free to choose one’s soulmate?

By Hamsathvani

I grew up as a learning girl. I don’t want to spend time on love or marriage. But one day I unexpectedly lost my dad. He was a child without siblings and lost only a male companion in my life. I decided to get married. I have never fallen in love before, so I have no idea about how to choose my life partner. In India, most families prefer to settle their marriage. Society is slowly trying to embrace the concept of love marriage.

I met a guy with his parents and didn’t think he was my perfect partner. Still, my situation was bad, so I need to find a male companion to lead my life. When I was raised as a dependent child. A family without men considered cursed families in India. I had no feelings for him, but I felt I should marry him. Judging him by seeing his modest nature, I thought it was my destiny. My urge to get married, regardless of other concordance, promptly made me accept this suggestion.

I’m married. During the week of marriage, he abandoned me and left to another city and married me to continue his work. You married me, a question that asked what his answer was.

I was looking for answers related to karma. Why did I attract or accept a dishonest man to me? ..I knew him two months before marriage. Why did I not realize karma or fate, or did not realize it.

Even when I was legally separated, I couldn’t heal myself. My anger towards them created negative karma for me. Even if they had cheated, their lives were moving in a positive direction. But I was stuck in the past. I want to tell everyone who is facing betrayal or cheating in a relationship. Yes, it’s difficult to move forward. On the other hand, we can see people who betrayed the movement in a positive direction.

The universe knows the art of balancing time, which understands it is a trap, and should move on. The first step I suggest that the abandoned person be fooled and the heart is broken and suffered.

About the author:

A slightly innocent girl from the village. She is now an adult woman by her way of thinking, thinking, and seeing society. People who like writing, speaking in front of others and singing and art lovers. Women who are becoming more difficult to change some of the social views related to women’s oppression, and learn to grow it from it through karma knowledge.