As many of you know, my fiancé and I are in the midst of wedding planning, with our big day just around the corner, and the process has been both exciting and a little overwhelming. There was a lot to consider, from narrowing down the guest list to choosing the perfect venue. Thankfully, one of the things we value most about us is how well we communicate.
We sat down together and talked about our budget and what was really important to us. At that moment, it became clear that we were on the same page. Our focus is not on pleasing others or stretching ourselves. It’s about building a beautiful life together, being financially conscious, and starting your marriage with intention, not stress.
We reached out to our event planner, Gail, and she told us that micro weddings are one of the biggest wedding trends for 2026, and honestly, it makes a lot of sense. The current economic climate has led many couples to opt for intimate celebrations and even courthouse ceremonies that prioritize love over luxury. Luckily, we have solid savings, but we want to be thoughtful and wise about how we celebrate our wedding.
Learning more about microweddings completely changed our perspective. By finding where I could simplify and cut back, the whole planning process felt lighter and more enjoyable. We decided to celebrate with just our immediate family and that choice alone took away a lot of pressure and confusion. Feels peaceful, personal and perfect us.
That’s what inspired me to share what I learned. Because sometimes less is really more. If you’re considering an intimate celebration, here are some do’s and don’ts to help you plan a micro wedding filled with love, meaning, and ease.
Microweddings are intimate, intentional, and So It’s chic when done right. Here’s a clear and practical list of do’s and don’ts to help keep your microwedding meaningful. and Stress free.
Execution: Defining the meaning of “micro” to you
A microwedding typically includes: 10-50 peopleBut the real magic is intention. Decide early on who absolutely must be on board and build from that core group.
Hint: They make the list if you can’t imagine a moment without them.
Don’t: Invite people out of obligation.
What’s one of the biggest mistakes you make? Feeling pressured to invite relatives, co-workers, or people you barely know.
Microweddings thrive on quality over quantity.
What to do: Invest in the details that matter.
With fewer guests, you can have a little luxury where you need it.
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noble floral pattern
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designer shoes or custom gown
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Live musicians or string quartet
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Top-notch food and cocktails
budget will grow further away If your guest list is tight.
DON’T: Don’t assume it’s “easier” than a big wedding.
Just because you’re small doesn’t mean you don’t have a plan. Here’s what you still need:
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timeline
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vendor adjustment
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seating chart
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weather backup
Treat it like a more intimate wedding.
Do: Choose a venue that makes sense.
Micro weddings shine in unique spaces.
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boutique hotel
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private residence
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art gallery
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garden or rooftop
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destination spot
The small venue feels intentional, cozy, and luxurious.
Don’t: Skip the ceremony moment.
Just because it’s small doesn’t mean it has to look casual (unless that’s what you want!).
Personal vows, thoughtful music, and a meaningful officiant can make all the difference.
Do: Communicate clearly with guests.
Please let your guests know in advance: intimate celebration So expectations are set.
This will avoid any awkward questions or hurt feelings.
What not to do: Over-schedule
Micro weddings are best when relaxed.
Intimacy is a luxury.
Do: Consider a post-wedding celebration.
If your guest list is very small, plan on:
This allows you to celebrate with more people without changing your original vision.
Don’t: Apologize for choosing a microwedding
Your wedding is a personal milestone, not a performance.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing intimacy, intention, and pleasure.
final thoughts
A micro wedding is more than just a wedding. few It’s about doing what matters most. If done carefully, it can be just as grand, moving and unforgettable as a big celebration, if not more so.
If you wish, you can also:
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Create a microwedding planning checklist
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Please help me with the wording of the invitation.
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Suggest micro wedding costume ideas
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Or customize it for your destination micro wedding
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Source: Talking With Tami – www.talkingwithtami.com
