Toby and I are visiting my sister this week, so I thought it would be fun to share some past posts. This is June 2023 that I sometimes think about. Shit
I’ve answered readers’ questions in the past, but I’d like to answer them again today. Here are three more ways to refresh your home on a budget, become a better listener, and more.
Q. “What are you going to wear this summer? I loved your post last summer about what the CoJ team is into, so I’m curious to see what everyone is wearing this year.” — Ursula
A. I would love to create an updated version of that post. But on the other hand, as I was looking through my old photos (why does iPhoto always bring me the most emotional memories?), I realized that every summer, I had one black casual dress that was my MVP. I wear it over and over again: to dinner with friends, on bike rides, to the playground, while traveling, everywhere. When I was in England last summer, I remember feeling sloppy and jet-lagged and dressing differently. black denim dresssaid my classy aunt, “Joe, you’re suddenly so chic!” Proof that LBDs always save the day. Introducing 4 items that are perfect for this summer. midi, mini, V-neck, linen.
Q. “I love Cup of Joe house tours and want my home to have a lively feel, but I don’t have much of a budget. What are some inexpensive design ideas I can use to make my home feel more ‘us’? I’ll be forever grateful.” — Z.
A. Dear Z, I would like to remind you about fakeovers, the makeover of something you already own by simply moving it around. Consider taking your sofa in a new direction or switching out artwork in each room. I’m amazed at how small tweaks can make a big difference. Another way to make your home feel personal is to display family photos. They’ll make you smile, and they’re basically free!
Or, if you want to change the color or texture, opt for new accents instead of new furniture. In the photo above, I added four pillows to the gray couch. article. boom! This corner is a very cozy space to curl up with a book or have a long chat with a friend. It’s a super easy and fun way to switch things up. I wish you the best!
Q. Several of my friends have been going through some tough times lately (pregnancy loss, divorce, etc.). I want to be there for them, but I don’t know what to say, so I act awkward. Another friend once told me that I sometimes focus too much on the positive during difficult conversations. The last thing I want to do is make my friends feel unheard or unloved. Any tips on how to stay safe would be greatly appreciated. ” — Bina
A. Oh Bina, this is such a good question! And we’d love to hear from the CoJ hivemind about what’s worked for others. There are three phrases that make you feel good whenever you hear them. “Thank you for telling me,” “That’s really difficult,” and “Tell me more.” Often you just want to share your thoughts and feel understood, but listening is important. gift. Then when I called my father my stepfather When he passed away last December, while I was crying and talking to him, he gently said, “I understand,” over and over again. Honestly, I’ll never forget that call and how much it meant to me. Things don’t have to be complicated to have meaning. You seem like a good friend just by asking this question.
With lots of love to you all, we’d love to hear your thoughts! Also, if you’d like, leave your questions in the comments for future columns. Shit
PS More reader questions and 5 ways to become a better listener.
(Living room photo: Christine Han. )
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