What I’m Wearing This Month

The rule of marathons instead of sprints on holidays rarely applies. No matter how hard we try to make presence a priority, we often end up just catching our breath for the rest of the day. Between the gatherings, gift lists, and constant buzz of movement, it’s easy to forget what this time of year is meant to be: warmth, reflection, and connection. That’s why this December, we’re craving a slower rhythm: a haphazard, slow rhythm of quiet mornings, thoughtful rituals, and well into the night. together with our partners, Heaven Well WithinI’m redefining holiday clothing with soft textures and muted tones. This is a reminder to pass each moment with ease.

Holiday outfits for every moment

For me, the art of a slow holiday season lies in its simplicity. It could be the ritual of writing a card by hand, the smell of something baking as music blares throughout the house, or the joy of gathering friends around a candlelit table. It’s not about doing less; it’s about being more intentional about everything you do. Every tradition, every costume, every detail feels like a quiet expression of compassion.

Below, I share cozy and elegant looks that I can wear from leisurely mornings at home to evenings over with friends. All have a timeless tactile feel and are rooted in a spirit of presence. Because when you dress with intention, you create space for the moments that matter most.

write a christmas card

I love starting the season with my hands. Pen meeting paper, convey your thoughts to the people who made the year meaningful. What I really like are the cozy neutral colors. A luxurious cashmere dress that gives a sophisticated yet gentle impression. Add a pair of slippers and your favorite mug, and you’ll have the serenity of a snowy day, and you’ll *almost* forget that your inbox is full. Add some simple earrings or a bracelet with just enough sparkle to make your morning feel special.

Cozy Night Inn

In the evening, I can finally catch my breath. I take a bath, do my tried-and-true ritual for relaxing, then throw on my favorite cashmere pieces: wide-legged pants, an easy t-shirt, and a pullover over it. It doesn’t have to be perfect. You just have to feel good. Add a few drops to your body, go through your exfoliating routine, and you can actually feel yourself being brought back to center. This simple evening always transports me into the hustle and bustle ahead. (Really, who wouldn’t want to wear a softer-than-soft Sherpa eye mask?)

decorate the house for christmas

On tree cutting day, you want the comfort of still feeling connected. The matching cashmere set moves with you as you step outside to arrange your ornaments or hang your wreath. When I go outdoors for a bit, I like to throw on a structured coat or a wrap over my shoulders. Pair it with a baseball cap and sneakers for a modern look. The results are easy and festive without the fuss.

invite a friend to dinner

This is where relaxed sophistication meets a little holiday magic. I love knit sets with hints of metallic thread. It’s bright enough to catch candle light. Jewelry can be kept to a minimum, skin bright and hair slightly loose. Add your favorite scent, dim the lights, and pour something sparkling. When you feel safe, your guests will feel safe too.

the art of holiday dressing

This December, I’m choosing softness in the way I pace myself, what I wear, and how I move through the seasons. Haven Well Within’s creations are cozy, sophisticated, and grounded in their intent: made for real life. Because if you dress how you want to feel, the rest will follow naturally.

After all, the best holiday attire isn’t about standing out, it’s about standing out. For loved ones, for important ceremonies, and for yourself.