Tony James Simonetti
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introduction
Every awakening is marked with shadows. When a dark night of soul arrived, it manifested as confusion, chronic pain, and sadness leaving behind a relationship that no longer felt safe.
I’ll call my job Trauma information Because it honors both the nervous system and the spirit. Healing requires more than ideas, safety. Safety means I recognize that fighting, flying, freezing and fawning are not defects. They are the protective reactions your nervous system uses to keep you alive. Healing respects those reactions rather than pushing you beyond them. Often they manifest as patterns of delighting people, overexpression, or losing themselves to others’ needs. In my own life, it means shaping myself into the moods of others until I can no longer hear my voice (keeping comfortable and keeping small).
This is the basis for my course. Sovereignty sequencewas born.
Dark night
When a dark night of soul arrives, it does not ask for permission. That’s not clearly mentioned. It disguises itself as disorientation, depression, betrayal, or spiritual silence, as it speaks up and crushes everything we thought we knew about healing.
For those who are loyal to the path of awakening (especially those who are deeply traumatized), this experience can feel like a failure. Like a mental regression. Let nothing work anymore.
If you are in that place now, you want to know that I have created this map for you, so you don’t need to wander through it alone. I built it Sovereignty sequence This is exactly the moment.
Multidimensional map for multidimensional awakening
This course was born from my own journey through the spaces of awakening. A fog after the first insight, a relational system of intertwining exits, a nausea grief of treading into the unknown. This course is for those who stand on the edge of freedom, and if they dare to rest, they fear returning to their old roles. You’ve seen too many things to go back to sleep, but it’s still for you that raw feels so much to take the next step.
Five years after my first awakening, and three years after a trip without contact with my family, I stumbled Spiral DynamicsA model of human development that explains the growth of color:
- Stage Blue: Strict rules and moral absolute
- Stage Orange: Achievement Drive and Competition
- Stage Green: Relational Idealism and Final Illustration
- Stage Yellow: System Thinking and Integration
I myself lived in the yellow of the stage and moved towards integration, carrying shadows from the previous stage. Looking at ourselves on this map helped us understand why we were stuck. Not because we are broken, but because we outweighed the operating systems that shaped our identity without being given the tools for healthy dismantling. This course provides these tools.
At about the same time, I also resonated deeply with it The scale of Hawkins’ consciousnessfrom the bottom of shame and guilt, to map consciousness to peace and enlightenment through courage and love.
In many metaphysical communities, this spectrum is also expressed in languages ​​in 3D, 4D, 5D, and later dimensions. My own framing is based on Hawkins’ work and contemporary non-duplex education, and fits here with an experiential map rather than doctrinal.
Here’s a simple way to specify these stages from Hawkins’ consciousness scale:
- 3D: Survival Self: Controlled by fear, power struggles, and external rules
- 4D: Awakening Self: Glimpse into compassion, intuition, and personal truth
- 4d-5d bridge: disassembly, shadow work, turbulence of identification
- 5D: Sovereign Self: Creative expression fixed in unity, existence and love
- 6D+: Creator’s Consciousness: Non-double perception and channeling, an absolute glimpse
Most people who are attracted to self-realization and spiritual development hover at the “4D” personal truth threshold. This is often correlated with the intermediate range (courage, motivation, acceptance) between stage green and Hawkins in spiral dynamics. However, stabilization to sovereignty and creative expression (“5D”) (“5D”) often feels elusive. This is usually due to the complex trauma patterns that link us to the past.
Turbulence between 4D and 5D is realistic. Our old identities may break up, our nervous system resists, and the people around us may return us to familiar roles. You cannot bypass that pain. We must confront it and integrate it. Only then will we transcend unity, sovereignty and creativity without massive regression or collapse.
Without boundaries, what looks like “oneness” is often merely a fusion. It is a pseudo ocean that is intertwined with an older system. True beings only manifest when the self is revealed through sovereignty and then surrender to spacious unity.
I created to guide our journey on a dark night Sovereignty sequence:
Six phases of remembering who you are
My course, Sovereignty sequence, Move through six typical phases. These are not strict steps, but the patterns I experience and resonate with others on this path of respecting the stages of development, nervous system and aura provide a trauma-based bridge between insight and behavior.
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- Fog: Where chaos reigns, empathy gets caught up in the needs of others, and compliance feels like the only way to survive.
- Destruction: Idealism dies and you can’t help except for anger. It will become sacred.
- Exit: A place away from the old system (family, work, role).
- Eclipse: The blanks no longer terrorize you, but holy.
- Return: A place to learn to reenter life without losing yourself.
- Regeneration: Where purpose and creativity emerge from the ashes of your old identity and self-awareness.
All phases are important, and the solar eclipse phase is especially important. Too many teachings describe the void as a black hole. The place of ego’s death feels endless and irreversible. Instead, we see it as a solar phenomenon. The sun is still there. You’re still there. Something is moving across your light and asks you to pause before it becomes like this. When I reached that pause it felt like I had disappeared. But sitting in that emptiness allowed others to feel their own light without reflecting it. This emptiness is not a failure. It’s a sacred pause. Slowing is radical in cultures worshiping constant progress.
Sovereignty sequence: a course that holds you where others are rushing you
This is not a quick coaching program or a 30-day manifestation plan. It is a lovingly structured container for those who already know what it means to “let it go” but can help them survive the fallout of awakening.
It is drawn from somatic psychology, trauma healing, non-double mysticism, and nervous system repair. But most of all, it moves slowly, and gives permission to loosen the grip of the old, pleasant pattern so that it’s not okay, and regain your inner authority without explaining to anyone. The course itself is already designed as a safe space to begin its inner journey, using a built-in discussion channel that allows you to connect with others walking the same path. Over time, there may also be opportunities for group dialogue and shared exploration.
I don’t share as an expert overlooking this map, but as someone who stumbled over it, I was mocked, bewildered, and slowly discovered that each collapse was also an entrance and exit. What I offer is simply the path when I feel the most lost.
The final words
You can take this course alone. You can walk silently. Or, once you feel more grounded and whole, you can use it as a starting point for your own higher service. Above all, know this: you don’t need to hurry, you don’t need to prove anything, and you don’t need anyone’s permission. You’re not doing anything wrong. You are not broken. You are awake. You are right on time. Even if you have given others’ needs for years, you can always return to your own authority.
If you feel like you’re pulling to explore Sovereignty sequencetrust that pull. And if you have already begun your dark night, remember: the eclipse passes by. The light on the other side is not just visible. It will radiate from within you. I don’t borrow it. Not running. It doesn’t depend on someone else’s approval. But you are totally and brilliant.
Either way, you are welcome.
About the author
Tony James Simonetti is the creator Sovereignty sequencea six-stage course designed to support sensitive souls in regaining energy during spiritual awakening within a relationship. This pathway leads participants from the mist of people to more clear boundaries, integration of grief, spiritual orientation, without collapse or playing.
Although not a therapist, Tony developed this purpose-driven project after a decade-long process that included thousands of journal entries, navigating diverse healing modalities and deep engagement with the community. He was a dedicated member and co-employer of multiple groups, centering on the recovery of narcissistic abuse, inner child healing, separation practices, and the framework of the alcoholic adult staircase pioneered by Tony A. Sovereignty sequence He is also known for his dozens of books and extensive research into Tony’s own dark night souls.
You can start your journey today.
visit sovereigneclipse.org/sequence To see if the course is right for you or to see if Tony has any questions or concerns .
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